Child Hypnotherapy

What is Hypnotherapy?

So, You Think You Can’t Be Hypnotized?

Most people who say they can’t be hypnotized don’t really understand what hypnosis is. Take Joe, for instance. He had been suffering from insomnia for years. When he came into my office, he was skeptical about whether hypnosis could help. He said he didn’t think he could be hypnotized, but that he was so desperate for a good night’s sleep, he would try anything.

I explained that hypnosis is a natural state of mind, where you are neither fully conscious nor asleep. During hypnosis, the body feels extremely relaxed and the mind is open to positive suggestions. Everyone has experienced hypnosis at one point or another. It’s what you happens every time you zone out on the freeway and miss your exit or when you get so caught up in a movie, you forget about everything else.

Although some people are naturally more inclined to go into deeper states of trance, even the most skeptical person can enter into a deep trance, if he/she allows it to happen. Joe is a perfect example. Once he felt comfortable with the process and allowed it to happen, he went into such a deep trance, he didn’t want to come out! He couldn’t remember the last time he felt so relaxed. After only two hypnotherapy sessions, Joe was sleeping like a baby every night.

So, how does hypnosis work? Our minds operate on two levels – conscious (italics) and subconscious (italics). Although we make decisions with the conscious mind, most of our behavior is driven by the subconscious– a warehouse of old beliefs and memories that we are not even aware of. How many times have you resolved to stop or change an old habit only to find yourself repeating the same pattern over and over again? This is because the conscious and the subconscious are not in agreement. It is as though you are having an argument with yourself. For instance, you may find yourself thinking, “I don’t want that doughnut, yes I do, no I don’t.”

The subconscious is much more powerful than the conscious mind. When the two parts disagree, you are almost guaranteed to repeat the same old subconscious patterns. Hypnosis allows you to change all of that. In hypnosis, you can speak directly to the subconscious. It allows you to get the two parts of your mind in alignment so that you no longer feel as if you are having an argument with yourself. Doing what you really want to do just becomes easy and natural.

Hypnotherapy is one of the quickest, most effective ways to resolve personal issues. Some of the most common applications include:

* Smoking Cessation
* Weight Control
* Insomnia
* Eating Disorders
* Career Enhancement
* Sports Improvement
* Test Taking
* Stress Reduction
* Motivation
* Self Esteem
* Stage Fright
* Relationship Improvement
* Sexual Problems
* Nail Biting
* Fears and Phobias
* Chronic Pain
* Fertility
* Bed Wetting

When choosing a hypnotherapist, it is important to make sure that your therapist is certified. I recommend choosing someone who makes you feel comfortable. Don’t be afraid to ask for recommendations. And, most importantly, relax and enjoy the experience!

Stop Smoking

Smoking And Your Company’s Bottom Line

Whether you are an employer or an employee, a smoker or a non-smoker, you may very well have a stake in promoting a smoke-free workplace.  According to the Center for Disease Control (CDC), smoking costs businesses an estimated $167 billion each year in lost productivity and medical costs.  The CDC estimates that it costs companies between $1,200 and $3,800 to keep a smoker on the payroll. That is because on average, smokers are less productive than non-smokers.  American Lung Association studies show smokers take more breaks, have less energy, and are sick more often.

In today’s economy, companies are looking to cut costs wherever they can, which is why employer-funded smoking cessation programs are on the rise.   According to Jen Jorgensen, a spokesperson for the Society for Human Resource Management, “Companies are facing double-digit increases in health care costs, so preventative health measures are on the rise. Smokers, as an at-risk group, are getting particular attention.”

The success rates of employer funded smoking cessation programs vary according to the type of program being offered.  Nicotine replacement therapy (NRT) products, alone, seldom offer a permanent solution for the suffering addict. Research shows smoking cessation counseling is a necessary component of treatment since the addiction to cigarettes resides in the mind. According to a study presented on October 22, 2007 before the American College of Chest Physicians (CHEST), hypnotherapy is the number one most effective counseling modality.  The CHEST study showed hypnotherapy to be twice as effective as other programs, including pharmacological treatment.

Another factor to consider when choosing a smoking cessation program is that incentive-based programs have had a much better track record. According to the results of a recent study funded by the CDC, employers who implemented some kind of incentive to get people to quit, financial or otherwise, had a 32% higher quit rate than those without incentive programs.

Given the data we now have about the efficacy of smoking cessation programs, employers will be more likely to choose programs that offer a high return on their investment.  These programs are a win-win for businesses. The company benefits from improved financial health. Employees benefit from improved physical health. Even non-smokers benefit from increased productivity and better business strategies.

Test Anxiety

How Squeezing Your Fingers Can Help You Survive the Bar

A Survivor’s Story

When Joe came into my office last February, he was very distraught. He had already failed the bar exam once and his confidence was at an all time low. Every time he took a practice test, he would just freeze up. Joe had all of the classic symptoms of test anxiety.  Since there were only two weeks left before the exam, I suggested we try a quick technique called anchoring. I assured Joe that with this simple tool, he could learn to instantly change his anxiety state into a more resourceful state in a matter of seconds. Joe picked an anchor (finger squeeze) that instantly transported him to a time in his past when he felt calm, collected and confident. Every time he fired off the anchor, he was able to quickly access those positive states. Armed with the right tools, Joe managed to tame his anxiety and pass the bar! Just imagine having access to your most resourceful states – confidence, relaxation, focus – in a matter of moments. The tools are literally at your fingertips.

What is Anchoring?

Anchoring is the process by which an internal feeling is linked (or anchored) to an external trigger. The most famous example of anchoring is described in the experiments of Ivan Pavlov. Pavlov noticed that every time his dogs encountered food, they would get excited and salivate. As an experiment, he decided to ring a bell every time the dogs were fed. Pretty soon, just hearing the sound of the bell alone stimulated the same salivary response, an artificially induced state of excitement. The bell became an auditory anchor.

Anchors can involve any of the five senses. The following are examples of anchors in everyday life:

• Seeing a traffic light change to green and pressing on the gas pedal (visual)
• Hearing an old love song and immediately feeling nostalgic (auditory)
• Being pat on the back and interpreting it as a sign of praise (kinesthetic)
• Smelling apple pie and instantly being transported to childhood (olfactory)
• Tasting chicken soup and associating the taste with a sense of comfort (gustatory)

Whereas most anchors occur naturally, they can also be set up deliberately. Intentional anchoring is commonly used as a therapeutic tool by hypnotherapists and practitioners of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) (a method for accessing the brain’s full potential).  This valuable tool can help move a client very quickly from one state of mind to another, enabling the client to reach desired goals and outcomes.

Where Else is Anchoring Useful?

Think about the last time you were interviewed for a job. Were you as confident as you wanted to be? What about the last time you gave a presentation in front of an audience? Most people can recall at least one or more scenarios in their life where they wish they had shown more confidence, determination or focus. Anchors are useful in the professional setting (i.e. presentations, speeches, interviews) as well as the social realm (dating, sports, hobbies). Wherever it is that you want to feel more resourceful, that is when an anchor comes in handy!

How Training People To Use Anchors Has Helped Me Expand My Business and Reach a Larger Audience

As a hypnotherapist, I typically work with individual clients on issues like insomnia, chronic pain, eating disorders, anxiety, fears/phobias, and habit control. During my sessions, I use hypnosis in conjunction with other tools (like anchoring) in order to achieve the quickest, most effective results. The idea to train people in anchoring first came to me when I was working with a group of retirees. I taught them how to use an anchor to propel themselves into a state of greater relaxation and physical comfort.  The effects were immediate. I have since held several workshops on hypnosis and weight management, where anchoring was a key component and the results were similarly positive. This month, I will teach LWL roundtable participants how to use resource anchors in their businesses.

Creating Your Own Anchor in 5 Simple Steps

1. Identify a desired state of mind (i.e. confidence, calmness, focus).
2. Recall a specific time in your past when you felt the desired state. If you can recall a few strong experiences, select the most powerful one. Put yourself back into that experience as if it is happening in this moment. Notice what you see, hear what you were hearing, feel what you were feeling in the moment. Try to vividly imagine being there. When you notice the feeling come back, intensify the feeling as much as you can. Try to double the feeling.
3. When the feeling is at its strongest, “anchor” it in by making a unique physical gesture with the fingers or hand as you say a word or phrase to evoke the feeling. (e.g. clench your left fist as you softly say to yourself COOL & CALM). Hold the state for a few moments, release the anchor a nd then break state (change your emotional state by thinking about something completely different ).
4. Repeat the process about five times (using the same memory or an equally powerful memory from the past) in order to build a strong anchor. Repetition is key.
5. Test the anchor by firing it (make the unique gesture, say the word/phrase) and check th at you actually experience the desired state. You should feel the anchored state within 5-10 seconds. If the feeling is not satisfactory, choose a different memory that is more powerful.